He's Not Loving You Because You're Not Loving YOU

If you are in a relationship thats not quite going the way you want it to its time to step back and get brutally honest with yourself. Yes, i completely believe you when you say that you treat him like a king. I believe you when you tell me that you sacrificed a lot to work on this relationship. I believe you when you say that you've given your ALL to this man or woman.

So why is it not working out? Why is he/she treating me like this? I DONT DESERVE THIS!

Ladies and Gentlemen. It took me a long time and a whole lot of tears and hurt to be able to reveal this to you. If you can be brutally honest with yourself, and truly examine your beliefs and conditioning that you have carried with you from an early age, your answers will be revealed to you.

Im going to ask you some questions that you must answer honestly in order to create Change in your life. Do YOU treat yourself like a Queen/King?. . . Have you sacrificed a lot to work on YOU?. . .Have you given your ALL to YOU?. . .

This concept seems so hard for some to understand or agree with, but let me help you understand that NO ONE can give something you DO NOT give yourself. He's not loving you because You are not LOVING YOU!!!
ITS always an INSIDE JOB!!! No  amount of physical work,struggle, and effort, will bring you a happy and fulfilling relationship. You must turn within and focus your mental energy on creating that loving relationship with yourself first, 'and all these other things shall be added unto you!'
You thought, words, feelings and actions will be in harmony.
And when you start loving you unconditionally, that state of being will flow out from you, and attract other beings who will reflect that back to you. Trust your-self when it tells you with frustration, pain, and hurt, that. . . It's Supposed To FEEL GOOD.

Loving Me Unconditionally,
Jacqueline E. Purcell

You Have Everything You Need

Today as I was sitting in the passenger seat of my friends truck, on the highway, driving to our destination, my friend rolled up all the windows in order to hear a sound that was coming from the truck. Instantly I noticed a 'lack' of air and as i sat there i wondered when my friend would notice.

I then turned my attention to our abundant universe, and the limitless supply of air, water, food, and everything we need to survive and thrive.
Where is the LACK?

The only 'lack' we experience in the universe is the 'lack' we have created in our minds, and therefore MUST experience by the powerful laws that govern our universe.

We Become What We Think About Most Of The Time. . .Whatever we focus on or give our attention to expands! We give life to whatever we conceive in our minds.

The next time you feel anxious or worried about your well-being, and feel that there is not enough to go around  on this planet. . .stop what you are doing, find a quiet place, and take a deep breath of consistent, overflowing air. Step outside and observe nature. Feel the sun on your face and find comfort that it rises everymorning and it is NEVER LATE and it is MORE THAN ENOUGH for everyone. That flow is interrupted only when you do not allow it in, as when my friend closed all the windows. LET IT IN!!

You are so Loved. . .
ALL YOUR NEEDS ARE MET. . .

Faithfully Yours,
Jacqueline E. Purcell

Love Yourself Unconditionally

Many people find it difficult to Love someone else UNCONDITIONALLY. They feel that only saints or their perception of 'GOD' or perfection can fully show such love. Once again we must re-evaluate WHO YOU REALLY ARE. You are not your name, your job, the things you have, or your physical body! You are much much MORE my friend! You Are God, manifested in human form, and YES you can GIVE UNCONDITIONAL LOVE whenever and to whoever you please. Its a Choice.
I highly recommend that you start with yourself.

Dig Deep into your memory banks. If you can come face-to-face with all your flaws, all your mistakes, and all your regrets, and so-called 'sins,'  FORGIVE yourself, and love yourself despite it all, then you can extend that same grace to others. It will become easier once you've mastered it with yourself.

We are often times more harder on ourselves than others. We are truly our own 'Great Judge' and we pronounce everyday 'Judgment Day' by our own decree! Will we stand before the throne and free ourselves of every trespass we have made against ourselves?!!!
YES YOU CAN. . .
And then and only then can we understand and experience what that truly means in order to extend that same FREEDOM to someone else. You will finally be able to SEE everyone else in yourself and as YOUR-SELF.

Loving You UnConditionally. . .
Jacqueline E.Purcell